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The Best Ways to Communicate With a Senior Parent With Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer's care in Brooklyn NY
Alzheimer's care in Brooklyn NY

If you have a senior parent with Alzheimer’s you may find it difficult to communicate with them. As the disease progresses it can make it difficult for seniors to follow a conversation, respond to people when they talk, or put together coherent sentences. However, that doesn’t mean they don’t understand what you’re saying.

Communicating with a senior parent who has Alzheimer’s requires patience, understanding, and adaptability. Alzheimer’s disease affects memory, cognition, and language skills, making traditional communication methods challenging.

Alzheimer’s care can help your senior parent, and it can help you. With Alzheimer’s care your senior parent will get care tailored to their specific needs. And you will have someone that has experience communicating with seniors who have Alzheimer’s to help you. According to behaviorists that specialize in Alzheimer’s disease some of the best ways to communicate with a senior parent who has Alzheimer’s are:

Use Simple Concrete Language

Keep your language simple, clear, and straightforward. Use short sentences and speak slowly, allowing your parent enough time to process the information and respond.

Use Eye Contact and Tone to Convey Emotion

When speaking, maintain eye contact with your parent to establish a connection. Use a calm and gentle tone of voice, which can help soothe and reassure them during the conversation. Your senior parent may not understand what you are saying, but they will know from your tone if it’s positive or negative.

Don’t Correct or Scold Them

It’s essential to avoid correcting or contradicting your parent, even if they say something incorrect. Correcting them may cause frustration or confusion. Instead, focus on understanding the underlying meaning of what they are trying to express.

Practice Active Listening And Patience

Be an attentive listener and show genuine interest in what your parent is saying, even if their words may not always make sense. Be patient and avoid interrupting, as they may need extra time to find the right words.

Provide Visual Cues

Visual cues and gestures can enhance communication. Point to objects or use hand gestures to support your verbal cues. Showing photos or using objects relevant to the conversation can also be helpful.

Use Choices To Empower

Offering choices can help your parent feel more in control. For example, you can ask, “Would you like to wear the blue shirt or the red shirt today?” Giving them the opportunity to make decisions can boost their self-esteem.

Always Use Positive Reinforcement

Offer praise and positive reinforcement when your parent communicates effectively or shows effort in expressing themselves. Positive feedback can encourage them to continue trying to communicate.

Use Non-Verbal Communication/Notice Their Non-Verbal Communication

As Alzheimer’s progresses, your parent may rely more on non-verbal communication, such as facial expressions and body language. Be attentive to these cues, as they can provide valuable insights into their feelings and needs.

Do Activities Together

Engaging in simple activities together, such as looking at old photo albums, going for a walk, or listening to familiar music, can facilitate communication and foster a sense of connection. When it’s no longer possible to stay connected through words or conversation bonding through activities can keep your connection strong.

Keep Your Sense of Humor

Humor can be a powerful tool in communication, as it can lighten the mood and create a positive atmosphere. Share funny stories or reminisce about joyful memories to strengthen your emotional connection.

Amelia Home Care provides traditional in-home Alzheimer’s care services, along with virtual caregiving and remote patient monitoring. Our service area includes Brooklyn, Bronx, Manhattan, Queens, Staten Island, and Westchester County. Call today at (929) 333-3955

Amelia Home Care Staff

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